Much better to marry in the faith if possible. Dress nicely, as the girl will appreciate the effort put into looking good for her, and encourage her to do the same. Mormons are very particular about dressing. Hi there I have been married to a doctor for 16 years, first 10 as an orthopod next 6 as a plastic surgeon and still working towards the dream of a big house to show for all this hard work. Congratulations on understanding that and avoiding problems. Almost everything is complicated.
My next serious boyfriend was raised Methodist but considered himself non-denominational Christian and people would comment on that instead of his character. Do you know his work hours, break time during work and where does he take break from work. Most of us were Mormons and one point, many of us were even TBMs. Marriage is unbelievably amazing and indescribably painful; I have been at it for 28 years with my soul mate.
Do you schedule time in to talk and see each other. So that may be the end of it there. If I just assume he won't be home to eat dinner with us, it's a happy surprise when he is. I'm dating a Mormon girl right now but we both understand that it is most likely isn't going to last long. Realize that your Dr spouse isn't intentionally wanting to make you feel lonely or depressed, and they most likely feel as isolated by their work as you do. Learned by me in time and tears. Dating a doctor is a huge motivator for me.